Sex toys are things you use to masturbate with. There are a few different types of sex toys girls use. The most common is a vibrator. Its shaped like a penis and vibrates. You use it by rubbing it around your clitoris or vagina and inserting in your vagina. If you have heard the term "fucking yourself with a vibrator" this is what they mean. You put the vibrator in your vagina and pull it part way out then push it back in real fast over and over till you orgasm. If you live with your parents there is a good chance your mom has one hidden in her bedroom. Just make sure you use warm water to wash it off first and when your done. You may also find some that don't have batteries, these are called dildos. You use them the same as vibrators but they don't vibrate.
These are very similar to a normal vibrator but they are much smaller. Most girls use them just on their clitoris or inserting and rubbing it around their vagina. These tend to vibrate a lot harder and create a stronger orgasm. Most are the size of a battery or smaller. Some will have a cord that controls how strong it vibrates. Again if you live with your parents still your mom may have one hidden and I really suggest trying one. You will have a great orgasm in less time than using your hands.
These come in a lot of different shapes and sizes. They are used to massage your back, arms and other places on your body. A lot of families will have one of these. They vibrate a lot harder than most real vibrators. They are amazing to masturbate with, you just turn it on and start rubbing it around your clit. Most you can control how strong it vibrates, i have two and both I only turn half way up.
Electric toothbrushes are easy to find or you can ask your parents for one. Almost all of them vibrate, its not as strong as a massagers and vibrators but they work quite well. Most you can use in the shower as well. Next time your at the store with your parents ask for an Oral B "Pulsar". It looks like a normal toothbrush but vibrates. Just flip the brush end over and lightly rub around your clit, feels great. You can try putting the handle in your vagina as well. Electric shavers for face and legs work well. Obviously be really careful with the blades, if you can take them out when you masturbate with it. To use them you just rub the backside or where if vibrates the most right on your clit.
Another one you can ask your parents for is a Neutrogena "Wave Sonic". Its a face washer but it also vibrates, worth trying if you want to do something new. Really anything that vibrates hard enough you can use. Side of washers and dryers while they are running and even a sewing machines.
You can make your own out of anything that vibrates hard or fits in your vagina. If you have a small vagina but still want to try masturbating with something inside. Start with a QTip to get use to the feeling of something inside you then try a toothbrush handle or pen like a sharpie. If your vagina is larger things like hair brushes come in all sorts of size. Try a few and see what feels best to you.
Some alternatives that have been suggested to us is using Ice cubes, this does not work for me but a few people suggested it. First put it in your mouth so it has no sharp edges and wont stick to your skin then you can put it between your labia or around your clitoris or in your vagina. Got more ideas? tell us
If you have an smart device you can download a few different vibrator apps. Here are a few.
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