This page is for girls who have not masturbated before or never had an orgasm. If you already know how to have an orgasm skip to next page of the guide and learn all the different ways you can masturbate with things you have right now.
Lets get started with masturbating, obviously we need to be alone. No one wants someone walking in on them (yikes). Make sure your door is locked. The whole goal of masturbating is having an orgasm. It's a very hard thing to describe but feels better than anything in the world.
Were going to use the most common method, rubbing your clitoris. You may have noticed that when you lightly rub and tickle your privates you start to get a little "wet". Totally normal and really important for masturbating. You want to start getting that feeling of being wet. If its not quite wet or its hard for you to get it wet just spitting on your fingers and rub it around your clitoris so its easy to slide your fingers over and around it. Then spend some time softly rubbing over and around your clitoris and its hood, you can even "tickle" it a little. Don't worry if its not feeling amazing yet, it will take some time. As your rubbing around find that a spot that feels the best, most of the time its on your clitoris or next to it. If your not sure where your touching or if you want to see it a little easier you can Click Here to launch the Webcam Mirror App again so you can see yourself easier. Start pressing harder on that spot and rub up and down. You want to be rubbing up and down at a pace that's easy for you. Once you find that spot your going to rub back and forth or in circles over it and you have to be able to keep doing it for ten minutes or more. Your going to start getting a feeling that's kind of like an itch and the more you rub and the faster you go the better its going to get. The most common mistake girls make is stopping, any time you stop even for just a few seconds means its going to take longer to orgasm. You have to keep rubbing and it can take 5 minutes or more than 20 minutes sometimes. Soon your going to start to get a building up sort of feeling that feels really good then suddenly it will feel just amazing where you just cant rub any more. You just had an orgasm :) If your not sure your rubbing it right scroll down to see an example video of how to rub your vagina.
You might be wondering if you really had an orgasm. Obviously you can feel the orgasm. Right before it happens your going to feel your squeezing the inside of your vagina tight and holding it and when the orgasm happens your vagina is going to spasm or pulse over and over. It last five to ten seconds. Most girls have done this but if your curious and have never seen it up close you can watch it happen. If your on a laptop or desktop click here to try the Webcam Mirror App. Just get as close as you can to your webcam, masturbate and right as you thinking your feeling your orgasm it just watch your vagina, you should see it open and close really fast. Kind of crazy to watch if you have never done.
After your first orgasms you will probably feel sore and maybe "Dirty". Dont worry both are normal, the soreness will go away and it can help to use more spit sometimes. As you do it more it gets much easier.
If your having trouble seeing your clitoris, hymen or just want want an easy way to watch yourself masturbate, click the link below.
The video below shows what it should look like if your rubbing your clitoris correctly. This video is slowed down 50% so its easier to see exactly what she is doing. Notice her hand is rubbing over her clitoris and on the sides in a circle. She is going up and down without stopping. This is what you need to do if you want to have an orgasm. If your not sure if your doing it right you can use your webcam. Just click the "Webcam Mirror" button above to start.
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